Growing up is hard. Growing up in the mission field is harder.
Children of missionaries often go through unique difficulties and experiences most people never encounter.
“The mission field was difficult for me because I felt very lonely not knowing the language,” said Lipscomb freshman Mary Katherine Avrit. “Relationships were difficult.”
Mary Katherine, along with her brother, Lipscomb sophomore Christopher Avrit, grew up in Thailand, Laos and Cambodia. Their parents were traveling missionaries in Southeast Asia.
“At the same time, it was really good,” Mary Katherine said. “I would not be who I am today if I hadn’t been over there.”
Her brother echoed his sister’s thoughts on the matter.
“I would definitely raise my own kids in the mission field,” Christopher said. “Yes, there are challenges that come about, but the experiences you gain, the things you get to do and see… they stick with you.”
Lipscomb’s own Dr. Earl Lavender, a Professor in the Bible department and the Director of Missions, spent his childhood in Trieste, Italy.
“Italian was my first language, so English was the language I had to learn,” Dr. Lavender said. “When I moved back in elementary school, I had to repeat an elementary grade because I didn’t speak or write English well enough.”
Dr. Lavender spoke openly about the bittersweet experience of growing up with two culturally different homes.
“I’ve never really felt at home in American culture, but I don’t see that as a negative,” Dr. Lavender said. “I think it’s made me much more aware of a sort of global worldview that I wouldn’t have otherwise had.”