The McCaleb Mission Center in Ezell was a place of remembrance Monday, Nov. 26, as it hosted a small gathering for prayer for those who knew senior Kelcy Smart, who died over the weekend.
Jackie Halstead, sponsor of Delta Xi and licensed therapist, spoke to the group of more than 60 about this death and the grieving process.
Halstead related the grieving process to waves in the ocean. She said it will be like standing with your back to the water, and just like a wave hitting you out of nowhere, the pain of the loss will hit you when you least expect it.
Halstead encouraged students to continue talking about Smart in their everyday lives. “Talk about her as much as you want,” Halstead advised. “Even when people think it may be awkward, talk about her.”
After offering her own memory about Smart, she opened the floor to those who wanted to share their personal memories.
Many of Smart’s sisters in Delta Xi shared stories and kind words. Teachers, counselors and other friends on campus did not hesitate to relive the memories of Smart and the impact she left on the campus and community.
“She is one of the kindest people I have ever met,” one Delta Xi member said.
“I felt like I really knew her from day one, and she loved me from day one,” said another member of Delta Xi.
“She was the sweetest person ever,” another added.
“She never judged anyone,” Halstead said.
Scott McDowell also spoke to the group about being present in each other’s lives in this time of mourning. “You can talk about theology, you can talk about reasons or whys,” he said, “but now it is time to be present.”
Students interested in talking to someone about the situation can set up appointments in Lipscomb’s counseling center by calling Cathy Lincoln at 615.966.6294 during business hours. Counseling services are free for Lipscomb students. The campus ministry staff is also available. Students can contact Jason Parker at 615.479.8245 or Caroline Morris at 615.482.0881.